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Ms.O
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| 05/05/2009 11:14 AM |
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In another thread, a man posted this "Women: the more you create a distance between you and your man, the more he'll feel close to you and want to pursue you."
I am single and interested in a new man that I will have occassional contact with over the next few monts. I would like, more than ever, to get to know him better personally, but without pursuing him (which I won't do).
How do I let him know that I'm interested AND do what the guy above suggests....create a distance? If I create too much of a distance, he may think I'm not interested at all!
I've read this bit of advice before, and really want to be able to do that, esp as my past realtionships haven't been like that...and they always leave me wondering how interested the guy really is. But I'm afraid it will just end up by me giving the appearance of not being interested.
Thanks!
PS. I'm in my early 50s, don't date much, but would really like to be married again and share my life with someone. |
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Lee
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| 06/24/2009 8:18 AM |
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The girls and ladies that I gave my heart to didn't play stupid games. They showed interest in me overtly. Most guys don't take hints too well.
Smile at him. Pay attention to him. Touch him. If you know his favorite color, wear clothing of that color (unless you just don't look good in that color). Eye contact. Expressions of being glad to be with him. Don't play games. Don't be pushy.
This would most definitely attract any guy. After your relationship is established, then you might want to play your game, but carefully. Unless a guy knows in pursuit he can catch you, he just might give up. |
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